The short answer

Start with your filed papers, the existing orders, and the court’s instructions. California Courts explains that disputed custody and parenting-time issues generally involve mediation before a judge decides.

General preparation for California custody and parenting-time hearings. Court procedures and the orders in your case matter.

Understand what is being decided

Legal custody concerns important decisions about a child’s life. Physical custody concerns where the child lives. Read the request and response so you can identify the particular parenting decisions before the court.

Check the court’s preparation instructions

Confirm your hearing details, mediation or orientation requirements, and deadlines for any additional documents or witnesses. Ask how to present records properly; a folder of documents is not a substitute for following the court’s rules.

Make your information easier to follow

  • Keep the current orders and filed request together.
  • Write a brief timeline of relevant events, using dates and factual descriptions.
  • Organize records by the issue they address.
  • Prepare questions about school routines, transportation, health needs, and a workable schedule.

Prepare for mediation separately

The court’s mediation guide focuses on parenting arrangements. Support and property disputes are not resolved in custody mediation. Learn which mediation model your court uses and follow its instructions.

Official sources

Read the current instructions at the source. Requirements can change.

Sources checked November 3, 2026. General information only; confirm current requirements with the official sources and get advice about your circumstances.

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